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June 2013

“In the instances when POC say shit like ‘Oh I can’t stand white folk’ or ‘Damn white people’, they aren’t saying ‘Oh I think they are inferior, I want to humiliate them, abuse them, enslave them and wipe out their people!’, they’re saying ‘Damn, after a couple hundred years of white people thinking I’m inferior, humiliating me, abusing me, enslaving me, and trying to wipe out my people, I don’t wanna deal with them.’ The context is completely different.” —

Briana (via absinthedisco)

Reblogging every time I see it.

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Thank you.

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Jun 20, 201321,906 notes
#feminism #racism
Jun 19, 20139,144 notes
“Consider how textbooks treat Native religions as a unitary whole. The American Way describes Native American religion in these words: “These Native Americans [in the Southeast] believed that nature was filled with spirits. Each form of life, such as plants and animals, had a spirit. Earth and air held spirits too. People were never alone. They shared their lives with the spirits of nature.” Way is trying to show respect for Native American religion, but it doesn’t work. Stated flatly like this, the beliefs seem like make-believe, not the sophisticated theology of a higher civilization. Let us try a similarly succinct summary of the beliefs of many Christians today: “These Americans believed that one great male god ruled the world. Sometimes they divided him into three parts, which they called father, son, and holy ghost. They ate crackers and wine or grape juice, believing that they were eating the son’s body and drinking his blood. If they believed strongly enough, they would live on forever after they died.” Textbooks never describe Christianity this way. It’s offensive. Believers would immediately argue that such a depiction fails to convey the symbolic meaning or the spiritual satisfaction of communion.” —Lies My Teacher Told Me, James Loewen (via whoistorule)
Jun 19, 201313,263 notes
#feminism #Native American #language #racism
New research shows 0.6% of rape allegations are false. → m.guardian.co.uk

jadelyn:

likeadeadchinadoll:

and for those interested, you can find the report HERE

Just in case any dudebros are unclear on what this means: it means that your buddy who totally just had some bitch trying to ruin his life by accusing him of rape almost certainly did rape her.  

Keep that in mind.

Jun 19, 201324,856 notes
#feminism #rape #false reports #women #men
It's now a tradition

My goals! Not that I always accomplish them… From last summer, I was able to check off a few of my goals, but unfortunately had to cross some out too (like go to Rome and take at least 12 credits a semester…) So, here I go again…

Summer Goals:

  1. Work enough to make enough money to afford rent and utilities and food and gas. And maybe other things too.
  2. Get a shit-ton of work done for my Master’s Thesis. Like, research and reading and writing [a little] and finding where this will take place -all of the freaking details. Oh, and who will be on my committee. And talk to people about these decisions. And get IRB approval for interviews.
  3. Read a shit-ton of fiction books. Because they’ve been moving with you for years now, and I’m sure they are sad because you haven’t read them yet.
  4. Write at least once a day (maybe aim for 400-500 words?)
  5. Buy a bed. You can’t use an air mattress forever.
       5.a. Buy a dresser.
  6. Drink more water.
  7. Start figuring out what schools I will be applying to for PhD programs in the fall.
  8. Maybe start trying to like where I’m living now? Even with all the anxiety moving brought on? Even with the 20-30 minute drive one way every day and the crazy NJ drivers who don’t make it any better or easier?
  9. Sing. Sing at least once a day. It will help.
  10. Unpack my room.

Future Goals:

  1. Write a freaking awesome Master’s Thesis and get my MA in the spring!
  2. Finish applying to schools for PhD programs by December.
  3. Keep trying to accept the fact that my mental and physical health are more important than grades, or work.
  4. Accept the fact that my mental and physical health are more important than grades and/or work.
  5. Keep reading for fun. Even during the semester.
  6. Figure out a way to visit all of my friends on the west coast (and still spend time with the friends everywhere else too).
  7. Keep doing yoga and physical therapy exercises. Keep talking to doctors. Keep trying to find answers.
  8. Keep writing every day.
  9. Apply for more conferences and more academic stuff to put on a resume/CV.
  10. Go to Rome. Always go to Rome.
Jun 19, 20132 notes
#personal #goals
I am:

righttochoose:

- Pro Women

- Pro Child

- Pro Pregnancy

- Pro Birth

- Pro Abortion

- Pro Adoption

- Pro Birth Control

- Pro Parenthood

- Pro Planned Families

- Pro Life

- Pro Choice

Jun 19, 2013166 notes
“If men* could get pregnant, abortion would be a sacrament.” —

Florynce R. Kennedy (via kcnightfire)

Cis men*

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Jun 19, 201344 notes
Jun 19, 2013401,930 notes
#feminism #media #harassment #Justin Bieber #sexism
Jun 19, 201317,640 notes
#feminism #ecology
Jun 19, 201330,199 notes
#feminism #sexism #catcalls #men #women
“I’m not a concept. Too many guys think I’m a concept or I complete them or I’m going to make them feel alive, but I’m just a fucked up girl who is looking for my own peace of mind. Don’t assign me yours.” —

Charlie Kaufman, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind: The Shooting Script

Jun 18, 20137 notes
“The world is not full of Attractive People and Unattractive People. It’s full of people who are attractive to some and not to others. I hear from trolls all the time who complain that they don’t want to be “forced” to find nasty, ugly fat women attractive–which utterly baffles me, since the last thing I want to do is encourage fat-hating dicks to date fat women. You don’t find fat people attractive? Fabulous. Don’t date them. I will find a way to pick myself up and move on without your love. But to assume your lack of sexual interest in fat chicks must be universal–or that the mere existence of self-confident fat people having healthy relationships somehow “forces” you to find fat attractive–is the height of fucking narcissism.” —

Kate Harding wins the universe every day. (via wannablessedbereturns, lemonlove) (via jewdar, wannablessedbereturns-deactivat) (via junkwhore) (via glasses-kid) (via lipsbetweenthehips) (via gothgrrrl) (via fuckyeahbodypositive)

THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS

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Jun 18, 2013
“I’m just curious. Reblog this is your parents are against pro-choice, equality, same-sex marriage, etc., while you are a supporter.” —(via fat-matt-to-neo-neo)
Jun 18, 201366 notes
“In a ‘post-race’ country like America where nothing and no one is racist, where people are more likely to believe in UFO’s than in institutional bias, which does back flips to obfuscate the operations of white hegemonic power and therefore ensure its continuance, anyone seeking to expose white supremacy or battle it is in for some serious uphill. You will be attacked. You will be censured, usually by your own community. People will say that you are obsessed with race and that even mentioning white people in the context of white supremacy is itself racist. These days the average person doesn’t even have to be taught not to bring up white supremacy. Here in our country, as in Mordor, everybody knows not to say the dark lord’s name.” —Junot Diaz, Facing Race 2012 (via artactivistnia)
Jun 18, 20135,259 notes
#feminism #racism #post-racism #America

beautifuldurtyrich:

dohertypeter:

dohertypeter:

things girls are made to feel ashamed of-

  • having periods
  • choosing what they want to wear on their body
  • wanting to/not wanting to have sex
  • putting boys in the ‘friendzone’
  • standing up against misogyny
  • ruining a boy’s life by telling the police that he raped her
  • i could go on
  • abortion
  • having hair on their body
  • not appreciating catcalls
  • not appreciating chivalry
  • having control over their own fucking body

. Not wanting to have kids
. Being a lesbian
. Natural hair
. Having a lot of guy friends
. Not laughing at woman in the kitchen jokes
. Crying

Basically living.

Jun 18, 201390,343 notes

queenlisasimpson:

Things that I find gross and sexist about marriage 

  • When the dude asks team brides father for her hand in marriage
  • When the father gives the bride away
  • When the bride is supposed to take the husband’s last name

Also a bonus points for things I find gross and sexist about proposals

  • When a guy tries to pressure his partner into saying yes by proposing very publicly and then she is vilified and he receives sympathy if she says no
Jun 18, 2013993 notes
Jun 18, 201369,307 notes
“

I’m going to keep this short because our lives are short: it’s time for sex workers to do some killing of their own. We need to kill this myth of the righteously aggrieved client once and for all. It’s a myth that enables men to blackmail, rob, rape, and kill sex workers. It is a shame when you pay for a service you don’t receive, but it happens all the time in all varieties of the service industry, and it shouldn’t ever foster vengeful attempts at singlehandedly policing every worker in an entire field.

I propose that from this point forward, we don’t let the letters “TER” go uttered even once without launching into a recounting of the information above. That we support and encourage our colleagues while they explore ways to work without reviews, or at the very least with reviews on sites acting as alternatives to TER. That we create our own alternatives. That we recognize and reject vampiric pimps in all their forms. (As Melissa Gira Grant once put it, Elms successfully “jockeyed to take the abusive middleman’s place.” Jason Itzler, the man who stole hundreds of thousands of dollars from famous New York escort Natalia, praised Elms as “the most influential man in the prostitution business in America.”) That we don’t let a single client bemoan the risk he takes by submitting to a screening form when escorts are, indisputably, disproportionately, and aggressively targeted for arrest, police violence, extortion by friends and family, abuse from violent men posing as clients, and life-ruining stigma when outed. They do not suffer a fraction of what we suffer. That lie ends now.

Clients sometimes lose money. Sex workers regularly lose their lives. How should we rate that reality on a scale of one to ten?

”
—

Charlotte Shane

“The Big Ripoff: TER, the Texas Murder Acquittal, and the Myth of the Vulnerable Client”

(via sexworkerproblems)

Jun 18, 2013240 notes
“Heteronormativity isn’t just about the presumption that everyone is heterosexual. The expectation that boys woo girls feeds into your mind the expectation that relationships are necessary for fulfilment, and you are less than if you are not having particular kinds of sex with a particular, and a particular kind of, person at particular intervals. It’s about what Lauren Berlant calls the love plot, in which love is produced as a generic text enabling society to interpret your life as following certain conventions. It’s not about what you want, it’s about what you’re supposed to want. You’re not encouraged to think about what you want in relationships, if anything, so much as you are encouraged to fit a script. Heteronormativity messes things up for everyone, straight people included.” —

Tossing the script of desire | Zero at the Bone (via brute-reason)

Have I already reblogged this? Don’t know don’t care.

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Wow. Relevant.

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Jun 18, 20133,674 notes
When You Kill Ten Million Africans You Aren’t Called ‘Hitler’ → walkingbutterfly.com

acidshenko:

canadian-communist:

Take a look at this picture. Do you know who it is?

Most people haven’t heard of him.

But you should have. When you see his face or hear his name you should get as sick in your stomach as when you read about Mussolini or Hitler or see one of their pictures. You see, he killed over 10 million people in the Congo.

His name is King Leopold II of Belgium.

He “owned” the Congo during his reign as the constitutional monarch of Belgium. After several failed colonial attempts in Asia and Africa, he settled on the Congo. He “bought” it and enslaved its people, turning the entire country into his own personal slave plantation. He disguised his “business transactions” as philanthropic and scientific efforts under the banner of the “International African Society”. He used their enslaved labor to extract Congolese resources and services. His reign was enforced through work camps, body mutilations, executions, torture, and his private army.

Most of us – I don’t yet know an approximate percentage but I fear its extremely high – aren’t taught about him in school. We don’t hear about him in the media. He’s not part of the widely repeated narrative of oppression (which includes things like the Holocaust during World War II). He’s part of a long history of colonialism, imperialism, slavery and genocide in Africa that would clash with the social construction of the white supremacist narrative in our schools. It doesn’t fit neatly into a capitalist curriculum. Its bad to “say racist things” (sometimes), but quite fine not to talk about genocides in Africa perpetrated by European capitalist monarchs.

Mark Twain wrote a satire about Leopold called “King Leopold’s soliloquy; a defense of his Congo rule“, where he mocked the King’s defense of his reign of terror, largely through Leopold’s own words. Its 49 pages long. Mark Twain is a popular author for American public schools. But like most political authors, we will often read some of their least political writings or read them without learning why the author wrote them (Orwell’s Animal Farm for example serves to re-inforce American anti-Socialist propaganda, but Orwell was an anti-capitalist revolutionary of a different kind – this is never pointed out). We can read about Huck Finn and Tom Sawyer, but King Leopold’s Soliloquy isn’t on the reading list. This isn’t by accident. Reading lists are created by boards of education in order to prepare students to follow orders and endure boredom well. From the point of view of the Education Department, Africans have no history.

When we learn about Africa, we learn about a caricaturized Egypt, about the HIV epidemic (but never its causes), about the surface level effects of the slave trade, and maybe about South African Apartheid (which of course now is long, long over). We also see lots of pictures of starving children on Christian Ministry commercials, we see safaris on animal shows, and we see pictures of deserts in films and movies. But we don’t learn about the Great African War or Leopold’s Reign of Terror during the Congolese Genocide. Nor do we learn about what the United States has done in Iraq and Afghanistan, potentially killing in upwards of 5-7 million people from bombs, sanctions, disease and starvation. Body counts are important. And we don’t count Afghans, Iraqis, or Congolese.

There’s a Wikipedia page called “Genocides in History”. The Congolese Genocide isn’t included. The Congo is mentioned though. What’s now called the Democratic Republic of the Congo is listed in reference to the Second Congo War (also called Africa’s World War and the Great War of Africa), where both sides of the multinational conflict hunted down Bambenga and ate them. Cannibalism and slavery are horrendous evils which must be entered into history and talked about for sure, but I couldn’t help thinking who’s interests were served when the only mention of the Congo on the page was in reference to multi-national incidents where a tiny minority of people were  eating each other (completely devoid of the conditions which created the conflict no less). Stories which support the white supremacist narrative about the subhumanness of people in Africa are allowed to be entered into the records of history. The white guy who turned the Congo into his own personal part-plantation, part-concentration camp, part-Christian ministry and killed 10 to 15 million Conglese people in the process doesn’t make the cut.

You see, when you kill ten million Africans, you aren’t called ‘Hitler’. That is, your name doesn’t come to symbolize the living incarnation of evil. Your name and your picture doesn’t produce fear, hatred, and sorrow. Your victims aren’t talked about and your name isn’t remembered.

Leopold was just one part of thousands of things that helped construct white supremacy as both an ideological narrative and material reality. Of course I don’t want to pretend that in the Congo he was the source of all evil. He had generals, and foot soldiers, and managers who did his bidding and enforced his laws. It was a system. But this doesn’t negate the need to talk about the individuals who are symbolic of the system. But we don’t even get that. And since it isn’t talked about, what capitalism did to Africa, all the privileges that rich white people gained from the Congolese genocide are hidden. The victims of imperialism are made, like they usually are, invisible.

Tony Bourdain referenced this on his program about a week and a half ago. The mention wasn’t very lengthy, but it was enough to make me actually look it up.

I was absolutely horrified. 

Jun 18, 20134,062 notes
Jun 18, 201399,782 notes
Jun 18, 201397,239 notes
#feminism #rape #men #steubenville
“

Why do we have an abortion rate 20% higher than France’s (and more than twice as high as Germany’s), especially considering most doctors here won’t perform them? The answer is any country that has universal health care, where contraception is free, where child care is free or inexpensive, where there is less poverty because people don’t become bankrupt over medical bills — those societies are simply going to have fewer unplanned and unwanted pregnancies.

And there the mask gets pulled off the Bart Stupaks and the “Christians.” If the statistics show that countries with government-provided universal health care and nearly-free abortions are, in fact, the countries with the fewest abortions, then why on earth wouldn’t the Right be the first in line to support universal health care?

Because it isn’t about “universal health care.” It’s about controlling women, period. It’s about sticking your nose in other people’s business. It’s about pushing your religious beliefs on everyone else because voices in your head tell you your Jesus is The One — even though your Jesus never said one single solitary word in any of the four gospels of the Bible about abortion or fertilized eggs being human. You’ve just gone and made it up about “life beginning at conception.” Jesus never said that. The little voice in your head said that, the same little voice that wants your grubby paws on women’s uteruses. You need help. Please get some help and leave the rest of us alone, Mr. Stupak and friends.

”
—Michael Moore: My Congressman, Bart Stupak, Has Neither a Uterus Nor a Brain (via veruca-assault)
Jun 18, 201321,652 notes
#feminism #abortion #America #religion

fuzzwald-the-penguin:

lovinovaries:

It bothers me that the intelligence of animals is measured by how willing they are to obey the commands of a human.

same goes for students at schools

I think about this post a lot

Jun 18, 2013200,025 notes
#feminism #education #intelligence
The Fresh Ten Commandments: The Fresh Ten → thefreshten.tumblr.com

nevver:

  1. You shall treat all people with respect regardless of race, color, creed, religion, sex, sexual orientation, gender identity, disability, age, or national origin.
  2. You shall not kill, assault, nor intimidate with threats of physical violence.
  3. You shall not rape, sexually coerce, nor intimidate with threats of sexual violence. 
  4. You shall cultivate intellectual curiosity, be open to new ideas, and  respect the scientific method.
  5. You shall not cheat, nor cheat others out of what is rightfully theirs.
  6. You shall not lie, deceive, nor spread lies about others. 
  7. You shall not steal, that is to say take or use what rightfully belongs to another person in a manner that causes harm. (Stealing is a trickier concept than it once was. How do you say yes to Fair Use and no to software patents?)
  8. You shall keep your promises.
  9. You shall not waste natural resources nor pollute the shared environment.
  10. You shall take responsibility for your actions and their consequences.

The Fresh Ten

Jun 18, 20136,079 notes
#feminism #ten commandments #new rules
“For readers interested in learning more about how not to be labeled as registered sex offenders, a good first step is not to rape unconscious women, no matter how good your grades are. Regardless of the strength of your GPA (weighted or unweighted), if you commit rape, there is a possibility you may someday be convicted of a sex crime. This is because of your decision to commit a sex crime instead of going for a walk, or reading a book by Cormac McCarthy. Your ability to perform calculus or play football is generally not taken into consideration in a court of law. Should you prefer to be known as ‘Good student and excellent football player Trent Mays’ rather than ‘Convicted sex offender Trent Mays,’ try stressing the studying and tackling and giving the sex crimes a miss altogether…

Trent Mays and Ma’lik Richardson are not the “stars” of the Steubenville rape trial. They aren’t the only characters in a drama playing out in eastern Ohio. And yet a CNN viewer learning about the Steubenville rape verdict is presented with dynamic, sympathetic, complicated male figures, and a nonentity of an anonymous victim, the ‘lasting effects’ of whose graphic, public sexual assault are ignored. Small wonder, then, that anyone would find themselves on the side of these men—these poor young men, who were very good at taking tests and playing sports when they were not raping their classmates.”
—

Mallory Ortberg of Gawker, critiquing CNN’s disgusting response to the Stuebenville rape trial verdicts. 

Her commentary is spot on.

(via cognitivedissonance)

Jun 17, 201319,293 notes
#feminism #rape #steubenville #preventing rape
“I have had several sexual partners in my life, but I won’t tell you how many, because it doesn’t matter. It could be in the thousands, and it wouldn’t make me any less cool to go to lunch with. It wouldn’t make me any less terrible at ironing a shirt. It wouldn’t make me any less likely to love shitty reality television I know is bad for me. Who I am and what I offer to the world has nothing to do with how many sexual partners I’ve had, and I’m not interested in justifying myself to someone who will have already judged me anyway. As much as I’d like to comfort you with some notion that I’ve been impossibly chaste up until the moment I find the “right” man to “complete” me in some way, I must tell you that I haven’t been waiting for anyone. I’ve been living my life exactly as I want to since I’ve become sexually active, and my choices weren’t made to impress an arbitrary committee of judgmental assholes.” —Charlotte Green, “I Am A Slut”  (via cantuliketheshampoo)
Jun 17, 20133,704 notes
#feminism #sex #women #men #slut
Jun 17, 2013204,128 notes
#feminism #friendzone #women #men #nice guy
“Margaret Atwood once wrote that “Men are afraid that women will laugh at them. Women are afraid that men will kill them,” but it’s even more complicated than that. Women aren’t just afraid that they’ll be hurt; they’re afraid that they’ll be hurt and they’ll get blamed for it.” —Ana Mardoll (via runningwiththegnomes)
Jun 17, 20137,921 notes
#feminism #women #men #culture #abuse
Jun 17, 20132,891 notes
#feminism #women #men #history #civil war
Gay Innuendo and Awkward Harry Potter References: alexandraerin: geekykristie: A trans woman will be playing a trans... → anotheralexandros.tumblr.com

alexandraerin:

geekykristie:

A trans woman will be playing a trans woman on Elementary.

More and more I feel like Robert Doherty was at some point a hardcore Sherlock fan who became fed up and went “I SHALL MAKE MY OWN SHOW WITH WOMEN AND MINORITIES EXPLORING ADDICTION STIGMA, ALSO MYSTERIES.”

Bless him. 

I haven’t read past the first sentence of this post. I can’t. I am too choked up to go further. Oh my gosh, I am sitting here crying.

 A trans woman will be playing a trans woman on Elementary.

Jun 16, 20135,409 notes
#feminism #media #Elementary #Elemetary you're doing it right #trans*
“I suspect it’s difficult for men to imagine a world in which their bodies have long been inextricably linked to their value as an individual, and that no matter how encouraging your parents were or how many positive female role models you had or how self-confident you feel, there is an ever-present pressure that creeps in from all sides, whispering in your ear that you are your body and your body defines you. A world where, from the time of pubescence on, you can feel the constant and palpable weight of the male gaze, and not just from your male peers but from teachers and sports coaches and the fathers of the children you baby-sit, people you’re supposed to respect and trust and look up to, and that first realization that you are being looked at in that way is the beginning of a self-consciousness that you will be unable to shake for the rest of your life.

Even if they are never verbalized, the rules of bodily conduct for females become clear early on: when school administrators reprimand you for the inch of midriff that shows when you lift your hands straight in the air or youth group leaders tell you that the sight of your unintentional cleavage is what causes godly young men to fall, you learn that your body is dangerous and shameful and that it’s your responsibility to cloister it in a way that is acceptable to everyone else. You learn that your body is a topic of public debate that everyone is entitled to weigh in on, from a male classmate telling you that those jeans make your ass look huge to the male-dominated United States Congress dictating the parameters that rape must fall within to be considered legitimate. To be a woman, and to live life in a woman’s body, is to be held to a set of comically paradoxical standards that make you constantly second-guess yourself and jump through a million hoops in pursuit of an impossible perfection.”
—Stop Catcalling Me | Thought Catalog (via moonjock)
Jun 16, 201319,278 notes
#feminism #body image #sexualization #women #men
Words I think we need

amber-and-ice:

steptomegetburntliketoast:

rhazade-waterbender:

radiantbutterfly:

Schrodinger’s Douchebag: One who makes douchebag statements, particularly sexist, racist or otherwise bigoted ones, then decides whether they were “just joking” or dead serious based on whether other people in the group approve or not.

Permission to use it?

OH MY GOD

I nearly spit water all over my keyboard. This is both hilarious and perfect.

Jun 16, 201329,976 notes
#feminism #new words #schrodinger's douchebag #sexism #racism
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#feminism #music #media
Writings for Winter: Dear Ana (an open letter to anorexia) → writingsforwinter.tumblr.com

writingsforwinter:

Dear Ana,

I wonder if you know that yesterday all the neighbors left casseroles

on your back porch because they thought you’d already died,

and even the undertaker knows your first, middle, and last name by heart.

Ana, you poor broken little girl. You’d drop coins into your mouth one by one

and make wishes to be even skinnier, just ten pounds more, please God,

if only you weren’t so scared that a few extra calories would be hanging off

that copper skin. This is a hunger strike; you sit crosslegged

on the driveway holding up your precious sign begging for more passersby

to buy a little more of your flesh, My ass is too thick, my arms too flabby,

Thick, luscious flesh for only 50 cents!

Ana, remember how everyone used to pass notes in grade school,

paper scrawled with love letters and smiley faces, slipping

through sweaty fingers? Ana, can you pass notes in your collarbones now?

They don’t teach us about you in health class because you are weak,

and weakness is not something to be tolerated. They don’t teach us

about you because they are too afraid the pictures of your thighs

will be too graphic. Your wrists like toothpicks,

your ribs like a ladder where all this hunger is trying to crawl out,

rung by rung, and escape from you.

Ana, I’ve seen you get down on your knees

in the middle of Sunday service and pray for size zero jeans;

I’ve seen you refuse the Communion wafers and wine

out of fear they’d fatten you up too much. Ana, you

are pushing your luck. Your hair is falling out; so much of it

is already gone that you could wear a sweater made out of

your own blonde strands. Tell me, do you wear it well?

Will the boys swoon over you now?

Today your mother forces you to stand on the scale,

but the numbers mean nothing. Ana, 110! Ana, 105!

Ana, 100, 95. 94. 93. Ana, 86!

I’ve seen the moon eat more than you do; it swallows the sky

every night and always goes back for seconds.

Even a mouse hoards more cheese than you do.

Dear Ana, yesterday a boy tried to hold your hand on the way home

from school but it disintegrated into dust between his fingers.

The day before that he tried to kiss you on the mouth

but your lips were so dry it was like swallowing sandpaper.

Dear Ana, this is for all the times you tried to hold your own ghost

just to give it a little comfort, but it slipped away in your arms.

I am writing you a letter and in it I am standing on the ceiling

of the Eiffel Tower and screaming fuck you, fuck you

at the top of my lungs. Because fuck you Ana, that’s why.

You’re just a poor, scared little girl and you are taking this baseball bat

and you are beating the shit out of yourself until there is nothing left

but blood and guts. But you never had the guts to start treating yourself

well; you only had the blood when the constant throwing up

gave you ulcers. Dear Ana, fuck you.

Dear Ana, I will not stand beside you and watch you wither away

into brittle autumn leaves. I will not watch you do this to yourself.

Your body is a burning building and I will not be the one to fetch

the fire hose. That is your job. Always has been.

Ana, aim the nozzle at the living room.

Hose that sucker down.

Jun 16, 20131,350 notes
#feminism #poetry #anorexia #eating disorders #body image
Divinity Photography: brashblacknonbeliever: With Father’s day fast approaching, I would... → divinityphotography.tumblr.com

brashblacknonbeliever:

With Father’s day fast approaching, I would like to send a shout out to the people typically ignored on days like this:

  • To the people with abusive fathers
  • To the people absentee fathers
  • To the people who don’t know their fathers
  • To the people who cut their fathers…
Jun 16, 201320,559 notes
Internal Acceptance Movement: Helpful and harmful things to say to a victim of sexual abuse: → internal-acceptance-movement.tumblr.com

mentalscubadiving:

Helpful:

  • “You’re doing a great job dealing with the situation.”
  • “What you are doing is very difficult and you’ve done so much already (list her actions).”
  • “It sounds like you have really thought a lot about the situation and what you want to do.”
  • “You really care a lot about your children. You are a wonderful mom.”
  • “You are not to blame for being abused.”
  • “You are not the cause of another’s violent behavior.”
  • “You deserve to be treated with respect.”
  • “You deserve to make your life safe and happy.”
  • “You are not alone. You can ask/have asked others to help you.”
  • “Things may be different now than before, and you and your children may have a different routine, but it may help you and your children live safely.”
  • “I am glad you are here with me now.”
  • “I’m sorry it happened.”
  • “It wasn’t your fault.”
  • “It is ok for you to feel _______________.”
  • “You are not going crazy.”
  • “Things may never be same, but they can be better.”

Harmful:

  • “I understand.”
  • “You’re lucky that….”
  • “You’ll get over it, it will just take a little time.”
  • “I know how you feel.”
  • “Everything will be alright, don’t worry.”
  • “Try to be strong for your children.”
  • “Calm down and try to relax.”
  • “Why didn’t you________________?”
  • “I think you should _______________.”
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“Women are socialized to make men feel good. We’re socialized to “let you down easy.” We’re not socialized to say a clear and direct “no.” We’re socialized to speak in hints and boost egos and let people save face. People who don’t respect the social contract (rapists, predators, assholes, pickup artists) are good at taking advantage of this. “No” is something we have to learn. “No” is something we have to earn. In fact, I’d argue that the ability to just say “no” to something, without further comment, apology, explanation, guilt, or thinking about it is one of the great rites of passage in growing up, and when you start saying it and saying it regularly the world often pushes back. And calls you names.” —

The art of “no.” « CaptainAwkward.com (via professorpinka)

And as a teenager I was told I had trouble saying no as if it was a moral failing on my part, when I was just doing what girls were obviously supposed to do ‘cause everyone told me I was one.

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relevant

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“Women feel more guilt than men, not because of some weird chromosomal issue but because they have a history of being blamed for other people’s behavior. You get hit, you must have annoyed someone; you get raped, you must have excited someone; your kid is a junkie, you must have brought him up wrong.” —Guilt Poisons Women by Germaine Greer (via needsofpixies)
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“

But are we really that surprised that these two young men didn’t think their actions were wrong?

Videos of men running up to women they don’t know just to grab their ass or stomach and run away are played for laughs on shows like Tosh.0. (The show is run by a comedian who garnered tremendous support after he “joked” about a woman in his audience being gang raped.) A “funny” montage of women’s breasts shown at the Oscars included rape scenes. We have handfuls of qualifiers—date, legitimate, forcible, gray—that we throw in front of “rape” because we want to know if an assault was a “real” rape or one of those non-rapes Republican politicians keep talking about.

And it’s not just rape that’s the joke—it’s women. Our very existence is presented to young men as fodder for sex and laughs, our humiliation and pain as goalposts for their masculinity. While mainstream culture fools itself into thinking that Americans take rape seriously, most women know better. We get the joke. We’re just tired of being the punchline.

”
—What’s So Funny About Steubenville, my latest at The Nation (via jessicavalenti)
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spooky-mr-charles:

spookyfear:

muslimrave:

one time a boy tried to pull my hijab off

i punched him in the face

closed fist, short swing, right in the jaw

there is a point where you stop trying to educate people and start making the consequences of their racist bullshit real fuckin clear.

Fuck yeah you do

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cakeandrevolution:

sunshineuncertaintyprinciple:

cakeandrevolution:

bootyregrit:

captain-ray-assbutt:

Dear people who claim that vaccines cause autism, therefore people shouldn’t vaccinate their kids,

vaccines exist to prevent deadly illnesses. You are literally saying that endangering your child’s life is preferable to them being autistic. Never mind whether they actually do cause it or not, you’re saying that death is preferable to autism.

Congrats, you’re a piece of shit and the autistic person/people in your life deserve better.

actually vaccines exist for the profit of the pharmaceutical corporations.

vaccination and immunisation are two different things. bet ya didn’t know that because you don’t know your ass from a hole in the fucking ground.

every disease ‘cured’ by vaccination was, in reality, controlled by better living conditions, better nutrition and better hygiene.  Tell me how you think we got rid of scurvy, scarlet fever and reduced the incidences of typhus in the first world without vaccines? But how is whitey gonna spin a massive profit from that mundane shit?

well done on being a talking monkey with zero research skills, fucknuts.

It’s really rich for you to talk about not knowing your ass from a hole in the ground when you’re comparing Scurvy (a vitamin deficiency), Scarlet Fever (a bacterial infection that actually does still exist, one of my friends niece and nephew got it this year, it’s just an advanced form of Strep), and Typhus (another bacterial infection), with the VIRUSES that vaccinations are intended to prevent.

Before I start, your comparison is kinda like saying “we can treat cuts with bandaids so I don’t know why you insist on setting that broken bone”.

Let’s get a little more detailed, so you can see just how fucking wrong you are and how ignorant your little screed was.

A condition like scurvy is simply the symptoms that manifest when the human body has a deficiency in one of more nutrients, in the case of scurvy it’s vitamin C, but Vitamin A deficiency can lead to blindness and there are various other vitamins that either too much of or too little of can have deleterious effects. The treatments for these are simple, either change diet to address the imbalance or in sever cases take a supplement to treat. Also, how fucking classist of you to think that we’ve gotten rid of it when Scurvy still effects the very poor and Vitamin A deficiency still claims the lives of 670k children under 5 annually.

Bacteria are single celled organisms capable of reproducing on their own. The human immune system can deal with bacteria through white blood cells consuming and destroying the bacteria or through the immune system generating anti-bodies that bind with the receptor sites that the bacteria uses to bond with cells. We also have nifty antibiotics which can directly kill off bacteria once in the human body.

Some bacterial infections, like pertussis and tuberculosis are VERY difficult to treat through standard antibacterial therapies and without detection within days of infection can still be lethal or life altering in the damage they cause. As it takes the body about 2 weeks to generate an antibody for an infection that it hasn’t encountered before we have largely relied on vaccination (and quite successfully at that) to prevent serious cases of these bacterial infections from being able to take hold as the secondary anamnestic response time (read, production of anti-bodies that the immune system remembers from previous encounters) peaks in 1-3 days. The difference between a pertussis infection with a primary antibody generation response and that with a secondary anamnestic response can quite literally be the difference between life or death.

Once a virus is in the body though the only way to treat them is to manage the symptoms and try and boos the immune systems response. There are a handful of anti-viral cocktails but they have limited efficacy and only work on a handful of viruses. Unlike bacteria viruses depend on taking over host cells and using them to reproduce, once the virus has stripped all it can from the host cell it bursts open spreading more viruses to infect other cells repeating the process. Many viruses also directly target the immune system rendering an effective immune response impossible which is why many of the viruses which we are vaccinated against are still lethal if contracted even in medically advanced countries (Other than vaccination, treatment of smallpox is primarily supportive, such as wound care and infection control, fluid therapy, and possible ventilator assistance.). Therefore we have to rely on vaccination to give our immune systems that antibody memory that I discussed above.

Viruses reproduce at a logarithmic rate, compared to the doubling rate of bacteria, With each new generation of a bacteria the number of new bacteria is at most double the number of the previous generation, however take a virus that can produce 50 copies for each infected cell. Say you initially get infected with 5 active copies of the virus (and these numbers are small for ease of comprehension, typical infection numbers are much higher). Those 5 viruses infect 5 cells and produce 250 new viruses, those 250 viruses turn into 12,500, which turns into 625,000, so you went from 5 to over a half million in 3 generations, (5 bacteria would yield 40 bacteria in 3 generations for comparison). This is why we can’t rely on primary immune responses for viral infections, they simply aren’t fast enough. In the two weeks it takes for antibodies to form for the kind of lethal viruses that we vaccinate against the human immune system has likely already been overwhelmed. However, if we provide the immune system with the memory of the anti-bodies needed it can provide an immune response much more efficiently and deal with the virus before it becomes a major threat. By keeping people vaccinated for these viruses it also prevents them from establishing a foothold in communities and spreading, it also protects those who can’t be vaccinated (due to compromised immune systems among other reasons) from infection through herd immunity, reducing the chances that those they come into contact with could be infected reduces the chances that the immuno-compromised will come into contact with those viruses.

tl,dr: You don’t know fuck all about viruses, bacteria, nutritional deficiencies, immunology, or vaccines, and your comment showed nothing but a massive amount of haughty ignorance. How about you actually learn something about biology before you try and act like I’m the one who needs to do research.

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Reblogging for that awesome NDT picture.

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“‘Passing’ necessarily makes ‘failing’ the fault of the trans* person who doesn’t try hard enough to fit into a stereotyped role of the ‘opposite’ gender, rather than the fault of the systemically and unfalteringly transphobic society that only believes in binary genders, and dictates a very certain, very narrow way for trans* people to be accepted as one of those two genders. The struggle is enough for trans* men and women, but what of the few people who don’t want to be seen as either female or male?” —

Pass/fail: Navigating a World that doesn’t Believe your Gender Exists (via ninjabikeslut)

like seriously…

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Jun 13, 2013159,014 notes
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“You are a horse running alone
And he tries to tame you
Compares you to an impossible highway
to a burning house
Says you are blinding him
That he could never leave you
Forget you
Want anything but you
You dizzy him, you are unbearable
Every woman before or after you
is doused in your name
You fill his mouth
His teeth ache with memory of taste
his body just a long shadow seeking yours
But you are always too intense
Frightening in the way you want him
unashamed and sacrificial
He tells you that no man can live up to the one who
lives in your head
And you tried to change didn’t you?
closed your mouth more
Tried to be softer
Prettier
Less volatile, less awake
But even when sleeping you could feel
him travelling away from you in his dreams
So what did you want to do love
Split his head open?
You can’t make homes out of human beings
Someone should have already told you that
And if he wants to leave
then let him leave
You are terrifying
And strange and beautiful
Something not everyone knows how to love.”
—“for women who are ‘difficult’ to love.”
Warsan Shire (via abimopector)
Jun 13, 20137 notes
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“

Women, regardless of their race, creed, color or political affiliation, have the right to participate in the revolutionary struggle in any way that their desire and capacity determine.

Women have the right to work and receive a fair salary.

Women have the right to decide the number of children they have and care for.

Women have the right to participate in the matters of the community and have charge if they are free and democratically elected.

Women and their children have the right to Primary Attention in their health and nutrition.

Women have the right to an education.

Women have the right to choose their partner and are not obliged to enter into marriage.

Women have the right to be free of violence from both relatives and strangers.

”
—EZLN (“Zapatista”) Women’s Revolutionary Law (via saandusti)
Jun 13, 2013965 notes
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